Why is it always hurts when dating and Why do Dating ended being broken?

According to a question asked by some students few weeks ago
"Why is it always hurt while dating and Why is it that dating breaks down?."
And conversation with Misters and Miss.

Mr. Noah said‬, "Well, my open ion is that most time you spent every thing on your boyfriend or girlfriend and still yet they won't still appreciate.
2. Lack of trust. When you trust not your partner in dating." Dating is sweet when you found your life partner still yet it never easy because it is bound not to last long.

+234 906 1----21‬: when every eyes are on your partner e.g like your character is that bad, boys are after my babe, my boyfriend has many girlfriend etc.

Miss Busayo: Dating is bounded with happiness but when it starts fading off, it becomes hurtful... From my own perspective sir
In dating, there are situation where one of the partners loose interest and when that is done, the love fades off gradually. Love doesn't vanish just like that, there are some things one's partner does that one does not like, that is when the loose of interest comes in and when that is done, that love is already loosing weight..

Miss Dorcas: Dating is problem. Dating is sweeter than honey  but one thing is that both cause the problem
2. Dating is bound to lack of understanding between both.
3. The boyfriend stopped or never give call.

Bro Ife said, most time any if them loses intrest just because of a minor issue that can be settle amicably.
2. Both are ready to be the king and the head.
3. Dating includes sex, maltreating, etc..

Miss Anah: In dating, we lack knowing our partners love language

+234 902 0----90‬: When a purpose of a thing is unknown, abuse is inevitable. There will surely be fight  and break up in dating because it purpose is not truly defined. You birth what is unreal in her and make it visible by training.
Because there are some things that has limitation in dating which are suppose to be dealt in your partner's life and if you are trying to address it, it might later lead to break up.

Miss Anah: because one is not ready to correct other, ones a mistake is done problem start. Most times in the process of correction and moulding her, ones you get tired- that is all.

Miss Christiana: Dating break down
Through lack of understanding and it break down if there is no true love between them.

Bro Ife asked finally,"Do we agree that Dating is not sufficient?
Miss Christiana said Yes
Miss Dorcas: Yes
 ‪+234 902 0-----90‬: Yes you are right.
Miss Anah: Yes.
Miss Blessing: Yes
Cecret: Yes

                 NOTES:

Miss Busayo said, " You correct where ever correction is needed...
On this level, You are to correct not to JUDGE. You don't do as if you know everything or that you're Mr. Perfect, you correct your partner as if you're bringing opinion...
You don't shout or say the correction as a must, you correct with love.

Miss Anah , "Hmm, to my own knowledge, Dating has no destination, no purpose or vision for doing it, you just have this soft spot for the person (feelings), agree to go on a date with her with no specific plan or destination. Definitely, it will eventually break up sometimes with no  reasons for breaking up.
Though, some relationship do leads to marriage but it is very scarce.
Their mindset and reason for doing it makes the difference.
 For instance, many people just date maybe just because they fell in love with each other, but those people have it at the back of their mind that falling in love isn't enough and can never be enough, because it is an illusion and It will surely fade away with time.
Yea, fall in love can never be enough to uphold a relationship. Imagine this, I was speaking with a married man weeks ago, He was trying to explain something's to me,that when he got married, there's this time he had 10℅ feelings for his wife but the understanding and wisdom on what marriage entails in order to build a Happy and healthy marriage sustain him. There I understand falling in love isn't enough.
 Wait, all those false declarations that people do say while they were in love,like "dear I can't sleep,eat,think straight, blablabla.....
Why do you think they do change in mean time?? Because the feelings is no more there. It leads to divorce in most marriage, then they will start picking stupid and irrelevant mistakes.